God doesn’t need us.
God doesn’t need our praise and love. God doesn’t need our service, our gifts of our material wealth, our actions of mercy.
But, what is awe-inspiringly true, is that God creates us, wants relationship with us, and sustains us.
In Matthew Chapter 22, the Pharisees ask Jesus, “which commmandment of the law/Torah is the greatest?”
Jesus replies:
“You shall love the Lord, your God,
Matthew 22:34-40
with all your heart,
with all your soul,
and with all your mind.
This is the greatest and the first commandment.
The second is like it:
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”
How can we love God who can surely exist without us?
Just as we human adults delight in hearing a baby or young toddler say our name or say something about us [that we likely already know!], through the image of God as parent, we can imagine God having that same sweet smile, that joy and delight when we say God’s name in recognition of who he is, when we speak things that are known, to God in relationship.
We see this earlier in Matthew’s Gospel, in Jesus example of how to pray. Jesus instructs the crowds listening to him teach that day, saying:
“This is how you are to pray: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name”
Matthew 6:9
We are like a young toddler, naming God and naming God’s attributes. And we can know that as the perfect parent (whom even the best human parent is merely a sliver of) God takes joy in our babblings. God delights in us. This love is us and God growing in relationship.
Now, to the second part of Jesus’ teaching Matthew 22.
God does not need our works. God does not need me to bring him food or drink. God does not need me to be forgiving or merciful to him.
In Matthew’s Gospel, the evangelist is very clear in associating Jesus’ followers with Jesus himself.
Jesus concludes his sermon given to those he is sending to do his work and mission with:
“Whoever receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives the one who sent me. Whoever receives a prophet because he is a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and whoever receives a righteous man because he is righteous will receive a righteous man’s reward. And whoever gives only a cup of cold water to one of these little ones to drink because he is a disciple—amen, I say to you, he will surely not lose his reward.”
Matthew 10:40-42
This means, the way we can do works of love to God, is to do them to our neighbor, to do them to others in Christ’s Body, to forgive others (Matthew 6:12), to do them to those whom the Son of God is hidden within (Matthew 25:37-40). God does not need my hospitality, or forgiveness, or mercy, or kindness, or whatever. But God’s desire is for me to do these things for others, and in doing for others we do for God.